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It Isn’t What You Would Do, It is What You Should Do

  When you see someone who needs assistance what do you do? Most folks – as much as I hate to admit it – walk the other way. It’s a “gee that girl looked so upset, hope she’s okay….where did I park” kind of mentality that we are living with in society today. I had one of those moments and when the girl told me she would be fine waiting at a gas station for a locksmith by herself, obviously upset, the only words that came to my head are ones I have often said… “If my mom, my daughter,…

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Where Are You Now?

Where are you now?  Or is a better question Where aren’t you now? Life changes.  Sometimes life changes a lot and it changes fast.  Some changes seem like they are for our best interest and some seem like they have no point at all in relation to our lives. We may even think that what is changing is the worst change possible.  Then when we stand where we currently reside on our timeline we realize it was a good thing. I have recently began looking back at the last 15 years of my life.  Can I just say WOW!  So…

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After the Storm, Love Wins

We all go through what I call Life Storms.  All of the sudden our calm, peaceful lives are filled with clouds, doubts, difficulties and sometimes failures.  When the clouds form we often muddle through, getting by however we can. When the storm hits full on we are tossed about in a sea of emotions like a small boat with no rudder.  More often than not, fight or flight takes over and we become emotion monsters.  We are taunted by anger, hurt, frustration and worst of all doubt and confusion. Everyone and I mean everyone has fought through a life storm….

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Life’s Stressful Moments

Let’s be honest, no matter who you are, life is full of stressful moments. Yesterday was my day to be completely stressed.  I had to make decisions and be in charge.  It was scary.  But I knew what was right.  I knew what my job was and I stuck to the plan and did it.  Granted it exhausted me, but I did it. So here is some advice about stress.  We all have it.  We all let it get the best of us.  Keep looking through the window and just believe you are doing what is right.  In other words,…